These Are The Rantings Of A Disgruntled Youth.

I have always know that I am a blunt person. Sometimes I begin to wonder if this is a good or bad thing. I was recently in a conversation in which a guy was asking if something he had done was rude. We asked for some context and what he said was basicly this: He asked a girl what impressed her, then backed up and explained that guys found her attractive. He let that sink in and when she was feeling flattered he clairified that he had not said that he found her attractive.(when in reality he did find her attractive) He went on to explain that guys seemed to do stupid things in order to impress her and he didn't think she was impressed. Ok, so I wanted to know why he couldn't just say I see that guys do stupid things in an attempt to impress you, are you really impressed? Why not be strait forward. He said you can't just do that. I know that girls play games and that some guys do to, but untill this conversation, I had not realized how prevlent these manipulations were in pla